Porn Star to Become Priest?

From The Taipei Times for Sunday, July 15, 2007:

Some people have their midlife crisis in reverse, like Ronald Boyer, who for most of his professional life has been better known as a star of pornographic films, Rod Fontana.

After 30 years of sowing the wildest of oats, Boyer, 54, has searched his soul and chosen, to the surprise of family and colleagues, to seek a priesthood in the Episcopal Church.

Where else?

From his work in the rented villas of the San Fernando Valley, where hard-core sex films are shot, Boyer has moved just a short distance west, to the Church of the Epiphany, which is guiding his transformation from pornography star to preacher.

The psychic distance, however, has been vast. In January, the lumbering 183cm performer was greeting fans on the red carpet of the Adult Video News Awards in Las Vegas, along with the superstars of pornography like Jenna Jameson and Ron Jeremy.

In June, Boyer was carrying the Holy Bible and a text titled "Gospel Light" to a live Internet show where he preached on the relative evils of pornography.

"Is pornography a sin?" Boyer asked on the show, which is aimed at people in the sex industry. "Probably. Definitely," he answered, a response that reflected his own ambivalence as much as a desire not to alienate his audience. "So is eating carrot cake until you're sick to your stomach," he continued. "And so is punching somebody in the face. That's a sin."

[…] He has tired of performing in sex movies, but even now doesn't condemn it. "Not one time did Jesus refer to pornography, or homosexuality," he observed on the Internet show, which he began as a co-host in May. "Jesus could have commented. He didn't."

Thank you for Platitudinous Lie #1: “Jesus never said anything about pornography / homosexuality / group sex / sex outside of marriage / sex with ducks / .” No, Jesus never specifically said anything about pornography; he never said anything about rape, incest, or picking your nose in public, either. So what? The epistles of Paul reinforce the teachings of Moses on the matter (“fornication” is used to translate the Greek word “porneia,” which in first-century Jewish life would have been understood as referring to any sexual activity in violation of the Law of Moses). Christians accept the scriptures as inspired by the Holy Spirit; therefore God has certainly spoken on the matter, and there can be no disagreement within the Trinity. The immorality of pornography and homosexual activity has also been the ApostolicTeacing from the beginning of the Church. Please, at least get a new argument; that one has just gotten boring.

Still, to pursue a new path as a religious leader, he had to make a clear choice. At the end of January, Boyer, who is married to a recently retired adult-film star, Liza Harper, announced his own retirement and gave up directing and performing in hard-core movies, he said, for good. "I don't enjoy it anymore," he said at the time.

Boyer's embrace of Christianity was not a result of a bolt-from-the-blue conversion. It was a gradual awakening to spirituality, in part stirred by unsettling changes in the multibillion-dollar pornography industry, which has veered into extreme territory in search of new ways of selling sex.

His journey from one private corner of American society to another has, by chance, traced the contours of America's experiment with sexual liberation to a return to more traditional values.

For Boyer, his path completes a circle. He grew up in a conservative Southern Baptist community in South Carolina, where he was baptized.

The contradiction between giving up pornography and feeling its attraction was still apparent in June, four months after retiring. "I love sex," he said. "I love performing. I love the combination of the two. I could go back and do it again, but I don't think I would. I had a passion for that. I put it there. Now I've channeled my passion to a different place."

The process to priesthood will take several years. Boyer began by being confirmed in the Episcopal Church this year. He is undergoing training to become a deacon, which will allow him to conduct most aspects of ministering short of the sacraments.

"I am hoping he can bring hopefulness and a love of Christ to people who desperately need it," said the Reverend Hank Mitchel, vicar of the church, on a recent Sunday after services.

I really hope so, too. I will pray for him. It cannot be an easy thing to walk away from a life that provides one with money, notoriety, and public acclaim – even if the acclaim comes from people who might not be considered the “pillars of society.” And it is certainly true that some of the greatest priests and saints have been the ones who could say, “Been there. Done that. You don’t want to go there.” Augustine, Francis, Ignatius of Loyola – even men like Fr. John Corapi.

If the tenor of this article is accurate, however, I am not sure it will come to pass. It sounds very much like he has fallen out of the physical pornography of Hollywood into the theological pornography of the Episcopal Church. If his conversion is real, he will probably eventually see through the falsity, and embrace not acceptance but forgiveness – a much finer and more helpful thing to receive! If not, may the sin be upon the heads of those who have misled him. I'm not going to jump on a guy who has left his past behind, just because he has been entrapped by bad teaching on the part of those who are supposed to know better. May God,who has begun a good thing, bring him into the Kingdom of Light.